When you
are poor, no one shows interest in you even if you live on a busy street;when
you are rich, distant relatives will come even if you dwell in the depth of a
mountain. Our world is too much of battle of Impressions. People seem to
worship in the false pantheon of beauty brawn brains and bucks. But they are
not fair measure of person’s value. Our society is dominated by too much
competitions . Dealing with expectation
of people is so frustrating. Evry1 may not be good but there is always something good in
everyone.Never judge any one quickly because
every saint has a past & every sinner has a future.
In life, We usually experience what was known as “panahon panahon
lang “ Belief BUT Some people too much boast
of their talent, wealth and achievements that they forget to being humble and
to be understanding. The example is people with advantage or people with
knowledge laugh off other people .There’s nothing wrong if people have
power,Wealth and achievements as long as his/her attitude will not change and
no friendship will be destroy.
Politicians tried hard to
build their image for political career purpose. We the ordinary people struggle
to combat needs of acceptance by trying to show good image to other people, there is similarity between political world and
the environment of company office we work, there exist politics, there always
exist display of power, Some People try
to show off being arrogant by showing that they have knowledge or they have
connection to powerful people. Some people use their title of position to be
arrogant. Crab mentality exist as a result of Power and image competitions. In
company office, There exist the display of posturing by some employee or people
which ordinary people will term as “nagpapa cute or the so called “sip sip”.
Sometimes, Even you have talents and even you did right, powerful people wins. Another
example is a typically environment where
one person has knowledge but extrovert people are given more attentions.
Sometimes Those people who talk a lot or people who
try to seek attention wins charisma. As the belief goes, p.r and talk is more important these days to
gain popularity. Sometimes we realize that despite of the fact that we have the
knowledge still we felt we were not appreciated because other person has more
charisma,we fails to get much needed Recognitions.
In a relationship or in any friendship. Pride become hindrances of
good relationship. Perceptions matter unfairly , Some people think just because
he/she has many followers ,he/she can have high pride. As we ponders, Boys
easily attracted to beautiful girl even though many pretty girl posses so many
pride and bad attitude while girls are attracted to posturing,Wealth ,Knowledge
of boys.
In a conflict, The more influential parties took advantage of
those weak people. People will unfairly side with the more outgoing type of
person even without making right judgment of the situation. Some people
think that by pulling rank, bullying people or throwing their weight around,
they can get others to admire them, fear them and follow them. A weak
personality are susceptible to bully by active type of people. As we look back
sometimes even extrovert type of people say or did something wrong yet they try
to show off that they are right while introvert type of people did right but
still fails to gain appreciations. While there is truth to saying that we must
not appear stupid to people we met to
avoid being bully. It is also strongly condemns that people treat other people
base on their image, impression and perceptions.
Too much posturing in our surroundings. Too much battle of
image, In my experience,Some people think
that because they have knowledge they can bully other people but still at times
they are wrong and they appear stupid . Some people will try to show off
greatness even they are not always correct. My experience show that some people
too much complacent of their knowledge sometimes appear stupid because they
fail to understand what they are talking about. When people criticize or react
against me, I learn the need to believe in me first . people are not
necessarily correct in how they react , I may be wrong at times but people are not necessarily
correct at all times,While it’s true I learn from other people, Don’t
let negative reactions or negative experience ruins our day.Many times We felt we lack much needed
recognition for our achievement. Many times We felt we lack much needed recognition for our achievement.
In Life, we will be surrounded by people who will judge us in and out
everyday.. Who will praise you once but will step on you thrice.. they can
break & tear you apart.. They can hurt you over & over again..How i wish our world be more forgiving...
